How is your weekend going? Mine was going smooth until I had a long convo with my grandmother and now I really can’t sleep.
I do have a problem a very serious problem. I do forgive but I don’t forget, so every time I remember why I am hurt I hate the person all over again and rather to listen to they sorry excuses of why they mess up, I just ignore them and don’t talk to them anymore.
I do miss them, OH DO I MISS THEM! but I just can’t forget. I was talking to my grandmother today and I came to the realization that the reason why I am not 100% happy (well I am 98.9% happy) is because it is so hard for me to let go of the anger, so hard to forget.
I will forgive you and maybe try to talk to you, but as soon as I remember what happened I will come back to my ‘not liking you’ self again.
But why it so hard to forget?
Why do I think that people are going to hurt me all over again?
Maybe because I have trust issues.
I mean do not get me wrong, I do not hate people, for the contraire I actually pray for those who did me wrong, but I just cannot forget the pain they put me through.
Am I wrong?
Do you remember the TV Show Forgive or Forget between 1998-1999? I used to love that show. I remember how nervous I felt when they have to walk to the door to see whether the person forgave them or forgot them and I actually felt so sad when they didn’t forgave them, when they have to walk back to their chair crying.
But I also understood the people that forgot them I mean How much pain a human can handle from the people that we love (the people that supposed love us)?
Do you Forgive or Forget?
I hope you are having a very relaxing weekend
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